Mommy Natalie’s Adult Babies Phone Sex Blog

Hello again, darlings!

I know it’s been awhile, dears, and your e-mails and calls have let me know that you’ve found the wait too long since your favorite phone-sex Mommy last posted! And your Mommy has missed you too. But I’ve so enjoyed the talks that I’ve had with many of you on the phone, even while I have been away from this blog!

Goodness, let’s see. There’s quite a bit of news! First, for any of my babies and prospective babies who don’t already know, I have just started hosting a second 1-hour show in our free adult chatrooms each week. That’s right—I and my colleague, the lovely Ms. Tara, cohost a “Madcap Tea with Milk and Cookies”, and from 7 to 8pm Eastern each Tuesday, you’ll find us bantering away in the sissies room there, as all sorts of fun characters wander through.

Sissybabies and sissies are our chat’s original audience, but all kinds of abies will be most welcome and enjoyed! Hm, and today’s Tuesday, isn’t it? So I’ll look forward to seeing you there!

Second, as I mentioned in my last post, I finally have a free audio sample available for adult babies in general. My loyal readers have noticed that I already have a sissybaby sample on this site, but I wanted to do some forced diapering that all my abies could enjoy! Just go to my Audios page (click the tab at the top of this page) to find it.

Finally, I soon will be rolling out my baby tuck-in service! I’ll have the details for you soon, but suffice it to say for the moment that I’ll be giving all my babies the chance to have Mommy Natalie call you at home, to make sure that Baby is behaving exactly as Mommy expects. Sound like fun? Stay tuned for more, lovies.

As a follow-up to my announcement from the previous post about my new weekly hour of hosted chat in our free adult chatrooms, I’d like to let you in on a special preview that I will be doing, my dear babies!

Even though I won’t officially be starting my 1-hour weekly chats until June 8, you will already be able to find me in the chatrooms tomorrow, June 1, from 4 to 4:30pm Eastern. I won’t officially be hosting the chat, but I thought it would be a good idea to have an informal test run. So especially if you are new to our chatrooms, I invite you to come by tomorrow and check them out! No registration is needed; to enter our chat, you must simply be of age (18 or older) and enter the screen name by which you want to be known.

This has been a very busy weekend for me so far! In addition to talking online and on the phone with my regular abies, I also was pleased to have my first call with J., a sissybaby who is only just discovering me! Like many sissybabies, J. not only adores wearing pink but also claims to fear being discovered by others—and yet as I have discussed in my last few posts, it’s clear to this perceptive Mommy that J. would like nothing better to have his sissybaby tendencies found out! Ah, the deliciousness of having one’s shame rubbed in one’s wittle face…

Speaking of shame and of rubbing, I’d also like to mention my sissy “Tonya”. She is not a full abie but does enjoy being spoken to very sternly. She also is terribly excited by certain childish punishments, such as being made to do corner time. In our first session together (which Tonya is still praising me for, bless her heart!), I got to watch Tonya on Webcam. And you should have seen her when I put her in the corner! Tonya told me later that she had been shocked that I punished her that way during our very first call, and yet, from the way that the pretty velvet of her dress was clearly working back and forth, as I could see on Webcam, it was obvious that even though her back was to me, Tonya was being a very naughty girl and trying to make a cummie during the real-time corner time I was imposing! Even when I told Tonya that I could tell what she was doing and forced her to keep her hand in view, it was obvious that she could barely obey, so excited was she. Apparently, the humiliation of being put in the corner in such a stern manner by me was almost unbearably erotic! But, abies, you certainly know exactly what your Mommy Natalie means by that, don’t you?

You all have surely noticed by now that my only voice sample here on the site is one for sissybabies. Yes, I know very well that not all abies are sissybabies. So by the next time I post, I’ll have another sample up that will be for abies in general! Something to look forward to, hm, my dears?

I’d like to lead off this post with a fun announcement: starting a week from Sunday, I’ll begin hosting a free, hourlong chat each week in our adult chatrooms. The chat will be held every Sunday at 4pm Eastern, and it will be titled “Decadent Discourse with Miss Natalie”.

I’ve chosen to set up that new weekly chat hour with no specific theme. This is partly because my popularity as a phone-sex Mistress means that I can be hard to catch between my many calls. So my goal in beginning to host those chats is mainly to make myself more easily accessible, and at no charge (because you are not familiar with them, our chatrooms are absolutely free!). I want all of my callers and potential callers to be able to get casually acquainted with me. After all, I certainly can understand that you might want to get to know your Mommy just a little bit before making the decision about whether I am the right one for you. So that free weekly chat with me is just one more chance that you have to do that!

If you haven’t been in our chatrooms and worry that it will be more public humiliation than you can stand for you to go in there as an abie…well, dear babies, Mommy Natalie wants you to know now that the atmosphere in those chatrooms is almost always very accepting and freewheeling! In fact, we already have some babies in there. So I think you can rest assured that you will fit right in. However, if that still doesn’t sound like something Baby can do, then as always, you are welcome to e-mail or IM me to try to get to know me on a more one-to-one basis before we do a call.

Now, when I last wrote, I was discussing the role of guilt and shame in abie scenarios—and the way that a good Mommy takes all that away for her babies. One more note on that: I recently had a great discussion with one of my abies about whether it’s useful to try and completely get rid of the sense of shame about having babyfication fantasies. Now, part of what makes me a great fetish phone sex Mommy is that I’m very accepting and understanding about your wish to be a baby. My babies know that when they’re with me, they can trust that I understand what they need and don’t judge them for it! But part of understanding abies for me is knowing that that very sense of shame has become inseparable from the sexual peak that my babies feel during our calls.

So although I appreciate that it might be healthier to be able to get rid of that shame, I believe that as with any kink, the shame is part of what keeps the hotness in furtively expressing that kink! So frankly, I’m all for keeping both. Hm, am I making a case for shame? Maybe—just maybe.

In my last post, I mentioned that I would be talking about some of the forced babyfication scenarios that I have done recently. An interesting thing happened, though, when I found myself thinking over those recent abie phone sex calls that I had in mind. It was this: I realized that in some way, every one of them has included the theme of forcing my caller into babylike behavior!

That was when it really clicked for me that in fact, being pushed to enjoy, move into, or stay in the baby condition is an extremely common thread among abie fantasies, and probably it is even the norm among those fantasies. And this started me wondering why that would be.

So here’s what I came up with. And I hope, my dear abies, that you’ll let me know what you think!

You see, I believe that behind every kinky fantasy is some internal conflict that the person has. Usually, there’s guilt or a sense of shame. Once that’s in place, then the fact that this guilt or shame becomes intertwined with sexual arousal in the person’s mind is the final piece that creates the height of erotic arousal that the fantasy consistently becomes associated with. So it’s a funny thing: the guilt or shame becomes inseparable from the erotic excitement of the fantasy.

The problem then is that guilt or shame, in general, are just plain uncomfortable. And Baby (in this case) hates those feelings! However, Baby also just can’t bear to give up the incredible arousal that can be had from the baby fantasy itself. So the most comfortable way to retain access to the baby fantasy and the arousal that Baby gets from it is for Baby to somehow find a way to give up responsibility for the associated guilt and shame. And how is that done? Why, by having a strong but sweet Mommy, who takes away any blame from Baby by being the one who forces the caller into the baby clothing, role, and activities! Yes, now Baby has been humiliated, but at least Baby didn’t really choose to do those things, to wear those clothes, or to act that way, and so Baby is no longer to blame! Neat, hm?

Thus, I’ll again turn to my sissybabies as examples. There’s “Julie”, who somehow always throws tantrums and has accidents in her big-girl panties each time that her Mommy Natalie allows her to graduate from diapers. Where does Julie end up? Yes, happily right back in diapers and plastic panties—which is always her favorite outfit when it becomes time to make a cummy. And there’s “Amanda Marie,” who often fusses that she is a man, not a 24/7 sissybaby, but yet who is so much calmer whenever Mommy Natalie forces her to dress in the prettiest baby clothes and plays sweet wittle baby games with her, such as with alphabet blocks.

And as always, I also have my beloved sissybaby “Annabelle”, and I’ll let her speak directly to you from her recent postsession e-mail feedback to me: “It’s as though You take my subconscious guilt, form a scenario that serves to bring it to light, expose and thus purge it from my subconscious. . . .i feel at such peace after a session, i can even laugh at myself.”

So all the forcing I do with my babies is really about helping you lose your guilt, isn’t it? And darlings, it really makes your Mommy Natalie so happy to know that when all is said and done, what you feel after a session with me is…fulfilled.

I talked in my last post about strap-on training (and how I don’t do it with my babies!), and that aggressive topic actually started me thinking about the ways in which I do force my babies.

Of course, in any kind of erotic storytelling phone sex, I feel it’s very important to tailor the approach and focus to the caller. That’s another reason that I don’t use strap-ons on my babies; I think that most abies want to experience arousal without the involvement of big phallic symbols! And whether strap-on or any other kind of play is fun for me generally, when I am doing a call, it is the needs and preferences of the client with whom I am speaking that become paramount. Keeping this in mind even as I weave the fantasy of having Mommy be completely in charge is certainly an art, and one that I enjoy.

Perhaps that’s another combination that makes me such a good fantasy Mommy: I am expert at providing the total illusion that Baby is utterly under Mommy Natalie’s control, and yet I also willingly accommodate the reality that the call must exactly fit the client’s needs to be truly satisfying! So in other words, even the forcing that I do as part of a forced babyfication scene is carefully designed to perfectly suit each particular baby’s desires.

That said, what do I think is wonderful about forced babyfication? So much! It’s hard to pick just one place to start, but if I must, then it would be that Baby gets exactly what Baby needs. Not only does Baby have the freedom to misbehave in a completely infantile manner, but all responsibility for bringing Baby back to the realm of socially acceptable behavior is completely mine. In fact, Baby even can give up any guilt for wanting to be a fantasy baby in the first place, because it is all treated as Mommy Natalie’s idea that the caller must become a baby in the first place. And this makes perfect sense, because why would any baby have to deal with having any responsibility whatsoever?

No, in fact, I totally appreciate that the attraction of the baby world to an abie is that no impulse control is necessary, and none is expected! Baby gets to be free to behave just as Baby feels at that moment. And I see why this is so exciting. It’s a wonderfully liberating change of pace from everyday life as an adult in our society! After all, adults are so often expected to ignore one’s feelings and concentrate on whatever adult tasks are expected at that moment. But in Babyland, all that is expected of babies is that they act exactly according to their most primitive impulses. And their Mommy Natalie first forces them to pay attention only to those impulses and then shapes their behavior from there, using the most loving but stern of Mommy approaches.

I do have more to say about this subject, so I’ll continue with this in my next post. I’ll also be talking there about some of the fun forced-babyfication calls that I’ve done recently!

I’ve been asked recently whether I’m a sweet or a strict phone sex Mommy. The answer is that I definitely enjoy being both, and that’s totally intentional. And let me explain that, because I think at first glance, some of you may find that confusing. But I feel that the combination of the two is what can really make for a mindblowing experience for any adult baby!

You see, I consider “strict” to be very different than “mean”. Mean Mommies act angry and punish their babies for no reason, making the relationship between Baby and Mommy very unpredictable. But really, this can make it hard to trust your Mommy, and when that happens, it can be hard to get fully into the scene with her.

Now, this isn’t to say that I’m a sugary-sweet Mommy. Not at all. Although my voice can sound nearly angelic during peaceful and happy times with my babies (perhaps I’ll be singing a lullaby or cooing to Baby, or laughing prettily as Baby and I do tub time or play on the swings in the backyard), when a baby of mine misbehaves, my sweet voice takes on a very clear ring of authority, showing Baby that I mean business and am quite willing to enforce my rules. (I have been told that this is where my experience as a sensual Mistress really shines through to great effect!)

My ability to put that note of command in my voice has been commented on by a number of my babies. Some have even told me that they planned to resist me further, but after a few sharp reprimands from me, they found themselves helplessly going to the corner or lying over my knee, crying or whining and hoping desperately to soon be back in their Mommy Natalie’s good graces. And the best news there? Of course they got to be, right after their punishment was finished. Because for me, balancing strictness and sweetness means being (mostly) a fair Mommy and forgiving my babies, so that we can get right back to playing happily. That is, until the next time that Baby needs punishment!

One side note on punishment: I recently also had the question of whether I would do strap-on play with a baby. Oh, goodness. Certainly not—and that’s true even though I quite enjoy doing strap-on training in my role as a general femdom Mistress, and even though toilet and diaper play with babies are forms of play that I do not mind at all. But something about mixing all that up and using a strap-on on one of my babies just seems odd and inappropriate to me, especially in the context of punishment! And just important, I simply don’t feel it should be necessary. My babies have always found that the combination of sweetness and strictness that I provide as a Mommy is sufficiently devastating humiliation to keep them more than satisfied and happy with being my baby—and to understand that as always, their Mommy Natalie knows best!

As for my Talkshoe radio appearance with Mistress Julia this past Friday evening, it was quite fun! Did you miss it, babies? No need to cry. You can download your very own copy for free, by clicking the link at the bottom of this post. I do say a bit about my thoughts on adult babyhood, and just as important, you can get an idea of how I may sound when you are talking with me. Enjoy, sweethearts.

Free download of my Provocatalk radio appearance from Friday, May 23

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I recently had a conversation with someone who has only tried diapering once before. He was actually concerned that once we had decided on a few details for the call, there would not be much else for us to do! I thought that was soo sweet, and I know he’s in for a wonderful ride. Why? Because part of the beauty of having a really wonderful Mommy is that Baby hardly has to do any work.

As a Mommy, I consider it my job to create the world that my babies and I will play in. I certainly welcome it whenever babies want to contribute ideas for their sensual roleplay phone sex session with me—after all, every session should be tailored to you individually, not done from a template! But I will take it from there, and you should expect me to. When you have an expert Mommy who truly understands how to read each of her babies, you can relax into the experience of just being the baby, without having to worry at all about what should come next.

That’s probably the most important piece of advice I have to give any prospective or beginner baby: look for a Mommy who makes it her responsibility to give you an amazing ride, including creative humiliation, sweet nurturing, and total understanding and acceptance of your wish to be a baby.

As for my caller, I know he wasn’t quite sure whether to believe me, and I don’t mind that at all. He’ll discover for himself very soon how glorious it is to totally melt into Mommy Natalie’s world and to completely give himself over to all of my nurturing demands. As I have said a number of times, I really think that the Mommy’s role in an adult baby’s life is very much a type of femdom. A baby wants nothing more than someone to take absolute control. And what kind of control could be more absolute than control over what Baby is allowed to wear, how and when Baby is allowed to behave and play, and even Baby’s basic bodily functions?

You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? Just reading this, you’re starting to want to make babytalk noises and maybe suck your thumb. Am I right? Well, then you’ll really like this news: those of who have stopped by my main blog or even just my schedule page within that blog may already know this, but if you aren’t already aware, as of tonight, I’m back from spending several days in Florida! (I was blogging remotely during my trip.) This means that I will be ready to take your calls, IMs, and e-mails tomorrow, starting at 2pm Eastern! I’m very much looking forward to saying hello to my beloved regular babies as well as meeting those of you who are new but want to know more.

By the way, I know that the links in my first couple of posts were not working previously, but I’ve gone through and fixed them all now. So you might want to glance through the first ones again if you haven’t lately, just to see if you missed any of the helpful clickability!

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For phone sessions with Mommy Natalie, call 800-356-6169 - click the Phone Sessions link above for more information on ABDL Phone Sessions

Well, my sweet readers, I know you’ve been following along with delight so far and have really enjoyed starting to get to know me. But as a Mommy worth her salt (at least), I know that no matter how well I combine creativity, sweetness, and sternness, Baby is always the center of every erotic storytelling phone sex session we have together. And that’s why it’s time to tell you how much I enjoy you!

I love my babies because every one of you is so very sweet. Whether you’re being naughty and in need of a spanking or are cooing with happiness, I know that babyhood is a wish to live a simpler life, and I adore you for it. I can so easily understand why someone who must live as a grown-up man in everyday life would love nothing more than to be babied and coddled in fantasy. After all, what a huge relief it is to finally give up all the responsibility for decision making! And when you have a Mommy whom you trust absolutely (exactly the kind of Mommy that I pride myself on being), then any pesky guilt about giving up that responsibility also can be removed totally. You know Mommy Natalie knows best. And you know that as you surrender, I will handle you exactly as you need to be handled.

What could be better?

Well, actually, I know what could be better. (I told you, babies, I really do know you well!) The piece that sends you over the top is the feeling of sensual humiliation that you get when in the capable hands of your expert Mommy Natalie. Being so totally controlled in such a pampering way means that it becomes so very difficult for my babies to think of any more reason why they should put up a fight. And without the need to fight, your pleasure is immeasurably heightened. Welcome to your Mommy Natalie’s perfect Baby world, from which you’ll never want to leave!

Now, my sweetikins, here’s an exciting newsflash. Do you remember how I mentioned in my first post about soon having an audio sample of my voice for you to hear? Indeed, one free sample is now available (click the Adult Baby Audio tab), and I would like to announce another way that you can get a taste of your wonderful new Mommy’s voice! It’s free as well…

As you know, I am a Mistress as well as a fantasy Mommy. Now, some of the Mistresses with whom I collaborate in my general femdom work are hostesses of their own kinky radio shows. Periodically, I am invited to be a special guest on those, and you’re in luck: my next guest appearance will be this Friday evening! Mistress Julia has invited me to guest on her Talkshoe show. Her show runs from 7 to 8pm Eastern every Friday, and my guest appearance this week will start at about 7:30pm.

Not familiar with Talkshoe or Miss Julia’s show? Don’t worry, sweet baby. She has posted some very comprehensive instructions on getting into the show at her own blog. And if you just can’t make it to join the show and chat with me live over your phone, you will also be able to download (for free!) the MP3 recording of it at the show’s site, later on.

So if you have any questions you want to ask me, this show would be a great time to get them answered—after all, not only will you get to find out how your Mommy thinks, but you’ll also be able to find out how I sound when I am talking right to you!

Among many other things, I love my baby callers for their total devotion. After experiencing me even once, my babies are always very prolific with praise for their Mommy Natalie. For example, here are a few quotes (used with permission, of course) from my sissybaby “Annabelle”:

• You have me completely hooked. i consider myself yours and want You to take complete control of me.
• It’s so embarrassing to admit to You how much the way You treat me excites me. i truly am putty in your hands.

Some of you have wondered how my love for femdom and my usual work as Mistress Natalie combine with my life as a Mommy, and a rather sweet Mommy at that. Great question! I’ll start off my answer to that by sharing a quote from my regular who likes to be known as “b.” Says he, “there’s no Domme like MomDomme,” and I could not agree more. And in my case, the fact that my domme style is strict but not harsh and is sensual rather than shrieky is a great asset. This allows me to become that most desirable type of Mommy: a nurturing dominatrix, who understands the most effective ways to use baby talk, discipline, rewards, and tasks with her babies! (Annabelle, like my other babies, recognizes this; she has started calling me “Mommy Mistress Natalie”.)

For instance, when my babies are good, I take them to play and am loving and full of fun new activity ideas. And when they are bad, rather than instantly transforming into an angry, punishing Mommy, I patiently but decisively tailor my handling of the problem behavior. As my sissybaby “Julie” has expressed to me, although the approach I use is not vicious, it has a power that must be experienced to believe. Julie has cried out or whined numerous times when being given corner time during a call, saying, “I feel like I’m really being punished!” And I know full well, my sweet babies, what a glorious and intoxicating feeling that can be.

Now, I can write about that endlessly, but that alone still won’t bring you to the humiliated heaven of being my baby, will it? Nope. In fact, nothing will, not until you have me on the line for yourself. So take the first step to personally experiencing your Mommy Natalie, and check my online schedule page. I update it frequently so that it will always have the most current information! On that page, you also will find contact addresses for me, so that you can send me e-mail with any questions you may have.

Speaking of e-mail, I absolutely love to communicate with my babies and potential babies in order to create the most satisfying scenarios possible all around! So yes, I welcome you to send me ideas and proposed timeslots in advance of our call, as well as any scenario or direction suggestions that come to you in between calls. Doing that is a great way to help make sure that I can best tailor my rich creativity to your individual desires.

I’m often asked why I so love being a Mommy, especially when many others who do general humiliation phone sex refuse to do Mommy–Baby scenarios at all. For me, the answers are straightforward. First, I am both a strongly nurturing and a strongly dominant woman. As any of you know who have been disappointed by fantasy Mommies before, that’s a necessary combination for getting beyond competence in this role. But because I have that exact personality, my callers find themselves transported, able to fully relax into being my baby, because they know that their Mommy Natalie has the scenario mapped out in her head, and they can trust me to take them exactly where they want (and need!) to go.

Second, I absolutely love to role play, and that’s incredibly important too. Now, it’s one thing to have a great Mommy voice (which I do—and you can get a voice sample by clicking on my Adult Baby Audio tab, at the top of this page!) or to know how to physically take care of a baby. But it really takes things to a transcendent level when your Mommy has all that and is also so enthusiastic and so skillfully in her role that you believe completely that she is truly your Mommy! In fact, when my callers send me follow-up e-mail, I always notice that they make it clear with every word that they are still in that world with me.

Third is the fact that I’m very nonjudgmental. I don’t think, even to myself, that your phone sex fantasy of being a baby is silly or strange. It’s simply your fantasy, and what’s important and motivating to me is that I have the skills to make your times with me the most amazing Mommy experiences you’ve ever had. I am delighted every time that I hear that a baby of mine has felt totally fulfilled by our time together, in the world that I have tailored individually for that baby.

And fourth, the Mommy role is just plain exciting for me! Femdom generally is a fetish of mine, and there is nothing so submissive as a baby who depends completely on me for feeding, clothing, changing, training, and play. I love not only making baby behave but also sweetly nurturing my well-behaved babies. It’s a fresh new game every time to find out exactly how baby needs to be treated during that call to feel safest and totally controlled. I even understand that some babies are rebellious only because they need to know that their Mommy can take charge with total confidence.

For example, “Annabelle,” one of my sissybabies, wrote me recently to say that I have “mastered” her psyche and that she is becoming obsessed with the world of our phone sessions. Annabelle shared that she is so happy to belong totally to her Mommy Natalie. And that is exactly what I mean: it is just as pleasurable for me to take over my babies totally as it is for you to belong to me absolutely. And you will see evidence of this every minute that you talk to me. Isn’t that alone good enough reason to call?