I’ll start with this comparison: all abies want a Mommy, but not everyone with a Mommy fetish is an abie. For example, some boys like to have sex with a Mommy or a pregnant woman, but I wouldn’t consider those individuals to be abies. They have Mommy fetishes (as every abie does!), but they often have no particular interest themselves in being treated like a baby or child. At least, they don’t have an interest beyond using that role as a pretext to get verrrrry close to the Mommy—after which they really have little interest in maintaining the baby role, because they would much rather take sexual advantage of a Mommy! In fact, what completely differentiates them from true abies is that they are rarely interested in feeling much shame themselves.

Also, not everyone who loves to be dressed up in baby clothes by a woman is an abie. For example, some boys (or girlies!) are sexually excited by babying treatments mainly because those are a type of sensual humiliation which demonstrates that the fetishist isn’t a “real” man. However, those folks are focused not on the forced babyfication itself, but rather on the implication that they aren’t equal to other adults!

By contrast, those I consider true abies are, of course, sensually humiliated by their forced babyfication or sissybabyfication…however, they honestly relish all the trappings of babyhood! The mittens, the booties, their bottle or dummy, their diaper and plastic pants, even their favorite bunny diaper pins—abies want the fantasy that they are babies because they wish they could be babies forever. And they don’t just want to be called babies…they want to be as babyfied as possible, because life as a baby is inherently satisfying to them!

Now of course, in my role as a fetish phone sex Mommy, I work with both of the types of callers that I just mentioned in the last two paragraphs. And both those are fun—don’t get me wrong! But I recognize that each type sees a different purpose for the babyfication aspects of the call, which means that I focus on lots of talk about the meaning of the babyfication with the former group…and on the babyfication process itself with the latter group.

And that’s how Mommy Natalie keeps all her sweet babies happy and cooing…

Now, the custom work that I’m doing for her will be some of my last before big changes in my personal policy on privately commissioned erotic audios take effect (I’ll post a note explaining those changes in the Audios section here on this blog, later this month!), but meanwhile, pollyann is also wallowing in the lullabies I sing just for her, in certain episodes of her story!

Babies, would you love to hear what my singing voice is like for yourselves? Well then, you are in luck! I recently posted a free audio to our tease forums in which I croon my own version of a certain well-known lullaby. Just click the link at the bottom of this post to find it—and then use your imagination as to what your Mommy Natalie might sing for you in our next fetish phone sex session…

And if you’d like other samples of my sweet but strict attitude, just click on the Audios link in the pretty-colored tabs at the top of this page. Once you do, it will show you a whole other page of wonderful complementary audio samples that I’ve done. Now, isn’t that exciting, sweetums?

Click here to go directly to the forum post where you can hear my teasing lullaby

I’ve chosen to set up that new weekly chat hour with no specific theme. This is partly because my popularity as a phone-sex Mistress means that I can be hard to catch between my many calls. So my goal in beginning to host those chats is mainly to make myself more easily accessible, and at no charge (because you are not familiar with them, our chatrooms are absolutely free!). I want all of my callers and potential callers to be able to get casually acquainted with me. After all, I certainly can understand that you might want to get to know your Mommy just a little bit before making the decision about whether I am the right one for you. So that free weekly chat with me is just one more chance that you have to do that!

If you haven’t been in our chatrooms and worry that it will be more public humiliation than you can stand for you to go in there as an abie…well, dear babies, Mommy Natalie wants you to know now that the atmosphere in those chatrooms is almost always very accepting and freewheeling! In fact, we already have some babies in there. So I think you can rest assured that you will fit right in. However, if that still doesn’t sound like something Baby can do, then as always, you are welcome to e-mail or IM me to try to get to know me on a more one-to-one basis before we do a call.

Now, when I last wrote, I was discussing the role of guilt and shame in abie scenarios—and the way that a good Mommy takes all that away for her babies. One more note on that: I recently had a great discussion with one of my abies about whether it’s useful to try and completely get rid of the sense of shame about having babyfication fantasies. Now, part of what makes me a great fetish phone sex Mommy is that I’m very accepting and understanding about your wish to be a baby. My babies know that when they’re with me, they can trust that I understand what they need and don’t judge them for it! But part of understanding abies for me is knowing that that very sense of shame has become inseparable from the sexual peak that my babies feel during our calls.

So although I appreciate that it might be healthier to be able to get rid of that shame, I believe that as with any kink, the shame is part of what keeps the hotness in furtively expressing that kink! So frankly, I’m all for keeping both. Hm, am I making a case for shame? Maybe—just maybe.

That was when it really clicked for me that in fact, being pushed to enjoy, move into, or stay in the baby condition is an extremely common thread among abie fantasies, and probably it is even the norm among those fantasies. And this started me wondering why that would be.

So here’s what I came up with. And I hope, my dear abies, that you’ll let me know what you think!

You see, I believe that behind every kinky fantasy is some internal conflict that the person has. Usually, there’s guilt or a sense of shame. Once that’s in place, then the fact that this guilt or shame becomes intertwined with sexual arousal in the person’s mind is the final piece that creates the height of erotic arousal that the fantasy consistently becomes associated with. So it’s a funny thing: the guilt or shame becomes inseparable from the erotic excitement of the fantasy.

The problem then is that guilt or shame, in general, are just plain uncomfortable. And Baby (in this case) hates those feelings! However, Baby also just can’t bear to give up the incredible arousal that can be had from the baby fantasy itself. So the most comfortable way to retain access to the baby fantasy and the arousal that Baby gets from it is for Baby to somehow find a way to give up responsibility for the associated guilt and shame. And how is that done? Why, by having a strong but sweet Mommy, who takes away any blame from Baby by being the one who forces the caller into the baby clothing, role, and activities! Yes, now Baby has been humiliated, but at least Baby didn’t really choose to do those things, to wear those clothes, or to act that way, and so Baby is no longer to blame! Neat, hm?

Thus, I’ll again turn to my sissybabies as examples. There’s “Julie”, who somehow always throws tantrums and has accidents in her big-girl panties each time that her Mommy Natalie allows her to graduate from diapers. Where does Julie end up? Yes, happily right back in diapers and plastic panties—which is always her favorite outfit when it becomes time to make a cummy. And there’s “Amanda Marie,” who often fusses that she is a man, not a 24/7 sissybaby, but yet who is so much calmer whenever Mommy Natalie forces her to dress in the prettiest baby clothes and plays sweet wittle baby games with her, such as with alphabet blocks.

And as always, I also have my beloved sissybaby “Annabelle”, and I’ll let her speak directly to you from her recent postsession e-mail feedback to me: “It’s as though You take my subconscious guilt, form a scenario that serves to bring it to light, expose and thus purge it from my subconscious. . . .i feel at such peace after a session, i can even laugh at myself.”

So all the forcing I do with my babies is really about helping you lose your guilt, isn’t it? And darlings, it really makes your Mommy Natalie so happy to know that when all is said and done, what you feel after a session with me is…fulfilled.